I don't know how I feel about online dating and not because of any type of stigma. It's more so that my prospects are terrifying.
I started with one very reputable site and it wasn't them--their service was great--and it wasn't even me this time. It. Was. The. Guys.
Holy cannoli it was so bad that I got a full refund.
Their interests were not inline with mine and I'm not talking about small things like he likes baseball and I like football. I'm talking like core values type of stuff. One guy told me that he hated fat people. Another one likes me because I'm asian. Um.... No.
And aesthetically, it hurt my retinas to look at these people.
Look, I'm fully aware that I'm not a ten and I'm not looking for a ten. I was looking for a 5-7 with oodles of personality and stuff. All I got were total duds. And I could even over look the looks if we had something in common but even that wasn't there.
Then my next set of winners were people who hadn't been on the site for months so they probably already found someone or forgot they had the account all together...
The one person (and I do mean one) that I had exchanged messages with had asked me out. I was like ok! And then wrote back with what I thought was a thoughtful message asking about life in general, stuff he had previously mentioned and tried to schedule a time/date but apparently that was an offensive item because he never wrote back to me again..... In life.
Okkkkk.
I called, politely whined, and got a full refund. They couldn't even deny how crappy my picks were.... So... Yeah.
I'm surfing/trying out a new company and they almost are one in the same considering that they are THE SAME GUYS AHHHHHHH
More to come later...
xo
